Wife Marries Lover With Help Of Husband

It could well be a perfect script for a Bollywood romance block buster but for Phoolchand it was sort of a heart break when he performed the marriage and `vidai' of his wife with smiles on his face.
Chanda, a resident of Bikapur village of Faizabad district, had an affair with a youth Suraj of the same village. However, bowing to the wishes of her parents, she married Phoolchand in 2012. Phoolchand, a native of the adjacent village Palipoorab, happily took his bribe to his house.
However, as fate could have it, he had to leave for Jalandhar immediately to earn money. Though the husband wife talked to each other frequently on phone, Chanda's and Suraj's love further blossomed as Suraj used to visit his relative in the Palipoorad village. His relative's house is close to Chanda's house and to ensure a meeting, Chanda used to visit his house on one pretext or the other.
Meanwhile, Phoolchand returned back on August 4 only to get a shocker. Chanda, not only returned the jewelery, clothes and other items that Phoolchand gave her at the time of marriage, but also told her the truth.
"I was happy that she relied on me and told me the truth. I got angry and sad for some time but decided to take out a solution", Phoolchand said.
After discussing the matter with his father, Phoolchand reached Chanda's village along with his father and confronted the village panchayat. "I kept forward my suggestion that Chanda and sooraj whould be allowed to marry and I have no objections", Phoolchand said.
After a long discussion, the Panchayat agreed to Phoolchand's offer and Sooraj and his family were also summoned. Sooraj and his family members agreed with in no time and the marriage was performed at the village's shiv mandir on Thursday.
 "This shows the mental level and strength of our youths these days and we salute Phoolchand for this brave step. It is better to accept the truth and act accordingly than to linger on with a forced relationship throughout life", Ravindra Yadav, the village head of Bikapur said.
Besides throwing out a lavish lunch, Phoolchand and his family members also gave gifts to the newly wed at the time of `Vidai' with blessings of a happy married life.
Source: Yahoo

Autopsies Conducted By Sweepers At KEM Hospital

One of the busiest post-mortem centres of Mumbai, with over 2,000 autopsies conducted every year, KEM Hospital continues to use 10 sweepers and an attendant to cut open the bodies, sew them up and handle the internal organs, in blatant violation of all rules
Tune in to any crime series on television, and forensics is a big part of murder mysteries – fancy labs, top-notch equipment and celebrated experts are put to work to get to the bottom of the case.
This photo of a sweeper at KEM Hospital cutting a body open was sent to mid-day by a worker at the Parel hospital
This photo of a sweeper at KEM Hospital cutting a body open was sent to mid-day by a worker at the Parel hospital
Closer home, however, the truth is far different, as mid-day found out at KEM Hospital, which relies not on glamorous, highly-qualified experts but on sweepers barely educated past Std IV to carry out intricate post-mortems.
This picture, taken by a worker at KEM Hospital, shows two sweepers at work, stitching up a cadaver. In a case related to a Pune hospital, the Bombay High Court had ruled that safai kamgars are not qualified for such work
This picture, taken by a worker at KEM Hospital, shows two sweepers at work, stitching up a cadaver. In a case related to a Pune hospital, the Bombay High Court had ruled that safai kamgars are not qualified for such work
Open-and-shut case
KEM Hospital is the largest tertiary care medical unit in Mumbai, with one of the busiest morgues, conducting over 2,000 autopsies a year. Shockingly, these thousands of cadavers are cut open, their organs handled and then sewn up, all by 10 sweepers and a post-mortem-attendant-cum-sweeper (PMA).
This is in blatant violation of a Bombay High Court recommendation that only trained specialists, and not sweepers – or safai kamgars as they are commonly known - be permitted to perform post-mortem work.
Two years ago, one Sachin Laxman Jadhwar and other sweeper staff of Pune’s Yashvantrao Chavan Memorial Hospital (attached to the Pimpri-Chinchwad Municipal Corporation) placed a petition before the Bombay High Court, complaining that they were forced to undertake a part of the post-mortem work - opening and stitching of the dead bodies - even though this was not part of their official duties.
On October 7, 2013, the HC observed that the minimum qualification required for the post of a safai kamgar was only Std IV-pass. “Obviously, a person holding the said post has no knowledge of basic anatomy.
If such persons are forced to open the dead bodies and again stitch the dead bodies, there is every likelihood that while doing so they may cause damage to the vital parts of the human body, which may amount to destruction of evidence, especially in medico-legal cases,” said the bench headed by A S Oka and Revati Mohite Dere.
Cutting corners
At KEM, which continues to ignore this ruling, not only are the sweepers unqualified for such work, they are not compensated for it adequately. Officially, the hospital’s work manual does not even list post-mortems as a duty for the safai kamgars or the PMAs. In spite of this, they are pushed to do the work due to the lack of technical staff.
They are paid around Rs 8,000 per month, but this only covers their regular duties. Because there are no legal provisions for such a situation, these staffers do not even get proper rights, such as adequate compensation or insurance for the post-mortem duties, despite the obvious risk of infections.
Staffers complained that when they protest, hospital authorities simply point to one convenient clause in the work manual: staffers must do as instructed by seniors. “The rule is common for all employees, but that doesn’t mean that staffers have to do anything and everything.
Especially when Bombay High Court asked a Pune civic hospital to not allow safai kamgars to be a part of the post-mortem process. KEM Hospital’s standard operating procedure doesn’t supersede the High Court’s judgment,” said an employee at KEM.
Another KEM employee said, on the condition of anonymity, that the most discouraging part of the job is the stark imbalance between the risks involved and compensation offered. “We don’t get any insurance cover, being a Class IV employee.
While performing the post-mortems, if we suffer any lacerations which lead to infections, we pay for our own treatment. Then what is the point of carrying out this responsibility when technically it doesn’t even fit in our ambit,” he said.
‘It’s tradition’
When mid-day approached Dr Harish Pathak, the HOD of KEM’s forensic department, he said it would be wrong to say that safai kamgars conduct post-mortems. Instead, a better way to put it would be to say they assist forensic experts.
“We have one Post-mortem Attendant and 10 safai kamgars working as his assistants. The practice of safai kamgars opening the bodies, removing the organs and stitching it up has existed since years, and is followed around the country like an age-old tradition.
Now if we want to change this tradition, we need a government resolution to initiate a gradual transformation towards achieving better quality in the autopsies,” said Pathak.
Training
Pathak emphasised that instead of removing sweepers from the post-mortem process altogether, thereby crippling the field, it would be preferable to give them proper training as mortuary assistants, along with suitable benefits.
“Rather than looking for a revolution in the field by removing safai kamgars from the post-mortem process, a better way is to offer proper compensation and formal training. If any such course is initiated, our department will welcome and look forward to it,” he added.
Hardly cutting edge
In an ideal setup, a morgue would have to have a cutter to handle the bones, a mortuary assistant to make incisions and handle organs and a medical expert (apart from the support staff of sweepers, PMAs, etc).
However, a veteran autopsy expert was of the opinion that it is impossible for any post-mortem centre in the country to run without safai kamgars. “In India, we still use chini and hathodi (anvil and hammer) to break open the skulls and bones, while the rest of the world is far better equipped in the field of forensic science.
A single doctor can’t undertake the amount of work needed to conduct an autopsy; we need experts to assist him,” said the expert, adding, “However, we need a gradual change from the current setup, in which more likely than not, a few inebriated safai kamgars do the work of dissection, etc.”
Source: Mid-day

Kissing By Father-In-Law Leads To Bride Refusal To Marry

KANPUR: A band, baja and baraat went empty handed after the bride refused to marry the bridegroom on moral grounds when her would be father-in-law kissed her cousin. 

The incident took place in Farrukhabad district in Kanpur. 

The marriage of Ruchi, daughter of Parmeshwari Dayal from Nagla Khairband village in Farrukhabad, was fixed with Rajesh, son of Baburam from Nehru Nagar of Jaithara in Etah. 

On the wedding day, the baraat reached Nagla Khairband village. All was well till the time of 'jaimal' ceremony when the bride's cousin Anita (name changed), who had come from Nagla Bhamrasa village of the district, also sharing the stage with her sister, was kissed by the groom's father Baburam even as the bride and her family looked on in deep disapproval. 

Piqued at his behaviour, Ruchi refused to marry and ordered the marriage party to return immediately. Sensing seriousness of the situation, Rajesh's father apologised to the girl and her parents publicly. But Ruchi refused to give in. Ruchi's mother, who also rushed from Etah, tried to pacify her but she refused to budge citing moral reasons. 

Later, the bridegroom and his father were confined to an enclosure by the girl's side and police were informed. While narrating the incident on phone, bride's cousin Brijesh Kumar said that the wedding party was allowed to return to Etah only after it agreed to return the gifts and reimburse the expenses amounting to Rs 27,900 incurred by the family of the girl on marriage arrangements. 

The groom's family returned the gifts and paid the money to the bride's family for the expenses incurred, the police said. "Though police assistance was sought, the matter was resolved mutually by both the sides," said SHO Kotwali RP Yadav. 

Source: TOI

Druken Groom Makes Bride Leave Him



A girl in a village in Mahoba district stunned members of her family and community when she refused to marry the groom because she found him in an inebriated state just ahead of the wedding ceremony on April 28.

The incident took place late on Tuesday night at Ajnar village of the district when Neha (name changed), daughter of Shripat Ahirwar refused to marry her drunk groom who had to return home humiliated and shattered.

Neha's marriage was to be solemnised with Arvind, a native of Ragauli village under the limits of Harpalpur police station in MP (Madhya Pradesh), on April 28.

Neha, in her early 20s, was decked up in traditional red bridal attire and ready for 'jaimaal' ceremony, but on seeing Arvind drunk and quarelling with her siblings and other guests over DJ music, she refused to marry him and walked away from the venue.

"At the 'mandap', the priest who was getting disturbed while chanting mantras, asked the siblings of the girl to stop playing DJ music. When they stopped the DJ, Arvind and his relatives who were drunk started quarelling with them and created a scene. Neha, who was witness to the entire drama, called off the wedding," informed SHO Rajiv Yadav. Villagers also supported Neha and asked her parents not to force her into marrying a person against her wishes. Sources said that the groom was so drunk that he along with other members of the 'baraat' created ruckus at the wedding venue.

The girl's father and siblings too took a courageous stand and asked the 'baraat' to return. "She found full backing from her parents," family sources said. "She refused to marry the man who was drunk. I did not force her to marry against her wishes," said Shripat Ahirwar, Neha's father. "The marriage party was looking like a party of drunken people. Neha could not tolerate that the boy who is going to be her better half should come in an inebriated state. She could not digest that after taking liquor the groom should utter abusive words to her relatives," said a relative of the girl.

The groom's side later approached the police but was advised not to pursue the case.

"What can police do, if a girl refuses to marry a drunk man," said SHO Yadav.

(Originally published in The Times Of India)

Source: Indiatimes

Sex Shop To Open in Mecca, Sharia Compliant

A "sharia compliant" sex shop is reportedly set to open in Mecca selling halal products and toys.

El Asira, an erotic brand originating in Amsterdam, is branching out to Islam's holiest city in Saudi Arabia, visited by millions of Muslims a year on the "hajj" pilgrimage.

Founder Abdelaziz Aouragh announced his ambition last year but now the shop is almost ready to open, Morocco-based website Alyaoum24 reported.

Muslim clerics and Saudi sheikhs have reportedly been consulted to ensure the business complies with local laws and customs.

"The products we're putting on the market have nothing to do with blow-up dolls or vibrators," Mr Aouragh told the AFP news agency.

"It's not about the sex act, it's what's going on around it. Our products increase the atmosphere and heighten feelings of sensuality."

Women's freedoms are severely restricted in Saudi Arabia and Islamic codes of behaviour and dress are strictly enforced but El Asira says it strives to lead to "more admiration and love for women" by improving marital relationships.

Its website describes all products as "sharia compliant" and claims they can "provide a deeper meaning to sexuality, sensuality and even spirituality".

Everything sold online and in the brand's shops has been deemed "halal", meaning they are permissible according to Islamic law.

"All our products are maintaining the integrity, pure humanity and ethics inherent with the sharia," the website says.

The company, launched in the Netherlands in 2010, specializes in sensual oils and is backed by German adult company Beate Uhse.

Source: TOI

Black Mayor Elected Leads to 80% of Police Force Quit

NEW YORK: The election of the first black mayor in a small Missouri town has prompted an exodus of city employees, with 80 per cent of the town's police force resigning before mayor Tyrus Byrd even took office. 

The Parma, Missouri city attorney, city clerk and water-treatment supervisor also stepped down before Ms Byrd officially took over the town last week, according to KFVS. Outgoing mayor Randall Ramsey — who was in city government for 37 years — said the officers offered no notice before resigning. 

It is not immediately clear why the officers quit the force, but the other administrators said their resignations were a result of "safety concerns". Five of the department's six officers stepped down, including two full-time and three part-time cops. 

Residents of Parma told the media that they are not concerned about the loss of the officers, saying the town probably was overstaffed with police. 

"I think it was pretty dirty the way they all quit without giving her a chance," resident Martha Miller said. "But I don't think they hurt the town by quitting, because who needs six police for 740 people?"

Source: TOI

MLA"s Son Gives Interview For Peon's Job

JAIPUR: Most of the politicians want their children to follow in their footsteps but aRajasthan MLA wants his son to chart his course according to his eligibility.

BJP legislator Heera Lal Verma does not want his 8th standard pass son, Hansraj, to join politics and considers him good for a peon's job, for which he yesterday appeared in an interview at Krishi Upaj Mandi (Rajasthan State Agriculture Marketing Board) in Ajmer.

A two-time MLA from Tonk district, Verma, who was a state government officer before joining politics, said his son being "less educated" was eligible for this kind of job only and he did not want him to enter politics nor do any other "work which is beyond his capabilities or eligibility".

"My son Hansraj works in a private clinic in Niwai and earns Rs 5,000 per month. He was weak in studies and could not clear secondary exam (class X). So this is the only option available to him.

"I will not encourage him to involve in any work or business which is higher than his capabilities or eligibility," the SC category MLA said.

When some of the other MLAs questioned his son's decision to apply for peon's job, Verma told them that "it is unusual but not a sin or anything wrong."

"After all, it is the matter of leading an honest life. I will not encourage my children to use unfair means to lead a 'prosperous' life. He said the interview went well and he would get the job on the basis of his performance only," he said adding that the recruitment process would be transparent.

"I am a post graduate in three subjects and also a gold medalist. I worked as deputy director in social welfare department and I know that getting a government job will make his future secure. He could not continue his studies so this type of job is suitable for him," he said.

Verma's eldest ex-councilor son is a businessman, another has recently graduated and is currently preparing for competitive exams and his daughter is pursuing BEd.

Source: TOI

Girl Poisons Mom Twice For Taking Away Iphone

DENVER: Police on Friday arrested a 12-year-old Colorado girl accused of trying to kill her mother twice by poisoning her with bleach for taking away her iPhone, authorities said.

Boulder County Sheriff's Commander Heidi Prentup said in a statement that the mother drank the caustic fluid on one of the two attempts, which both happened within a week this month.

On March 2, the girl poured bleach into a breakfast smoothie that she had prepared for her mother, Prentup said.

"Mom noticed an odor of bleach in the drink and thought her daughter had cleaned the glass prior to making the beverage and did not rinse all the bleach out," the police statement said.

The woman, who was not named by the authorities, was treated at a local hospital and released.

Four days later, the girl allegedly poured bleach into a water carafe her mother kept in her bedroom. When the woman smelt bleach, she became suspicious and confronted her daughter.

"This is when she learned her daughter had developed the plan to kill her for taking away her iPhone," police said.

Prentup said the mother reported the girl to police, and that investigators then gathered enough evidence to take her into custody.

The girl was taken to a juvenile detention facility on Friday where is being held pending the filing of charges.

Source: TOI

Man Caught for theft turns out to be Millionaire

A 'petty' thief caught red-handed stealing Rs 1 lakh from the dickey of a motorbike by the police in Katihar, 300km east of Patna, has turned out to be a crorepati! 
"Katihar Town police is stunned that Arjun Yadav, the kingpin and a mastermind of a gang of thieves who specialised in stealing from vehicles, even owned a showroom for TVS motorbikes, superintendent of police," Kshatranil Sungh told HT on Saturday.
"He trained thieves to strip luxury cars and motorbikes and steal valuables. The members of the gang would throw a few Rs 10 currency notes near the vehicles to divert attention of drivers or vehicle owners. As they picked the small change, gang members would make away with cash and valuables," Singh said.
Interestingly, nobody in Yadav's neighbourhood in Gerabari village under Korha block, some 30 kms away from Katihar, ever knew that he was a thief.
"He owns a three-storied building located at Teja Tola locality under Town police station, another house at Gerabari in Korha police station area worth crores and his children study in prestigious schools," the SP said.
The thiefs 'social stature's came to light during investigations. Police found that he was a sub-dealer of TVS motorcycle (showroom) and had several bank accounts, besides owning six shops. 
"Police has begun the investigation into the case to unearth assets and involve the income-tax department for further probe," the SP added.
According to him, the accused is a active member of robbery gang which is active in the state under the name of ''Korha''-after the place of origin. The group has collected huge physical assets by way of loot and robbery, said Singh, adding that he has asked the Korha circle officer to investigate his investments in realty.
"We had arrested many members of his gang in the past, but Yadav always gave us the slip," said the official.

According to the police, he had never committed any theft in town police station area and that was the reason why locals were unaware of his misdeeds.
Korha is a very backward block of Bihar, with police recording that most households have members who are fully or partially into unlawful activities. The block has a population of 4000 males, many of them into theft , pick-pocketing, looting and robbery. All the thieves of the village are members of a committee that monitors and manages the daily working of the group.
"It is mandatory to send the collected money back to the village committee because it distributes money and goods to thieves and others engaged in similar professions," said an official.
"The committee also hires lawyers to bail the thieves out when they are arrested and charged", the officer said, adding that it also keeps a percentage of the looted money and goods for smooth functioning of the village.
The kingpin of the racket  is instrumental in training the children and sending them to metros and small towns across India.

Arrested for killing Dogs for Dog Biryani and Korma

Two Kalina residents were arrested yesterday for allegedly abducting, killing and then eating pet dogs in the locality. According to the local police, the duo may have killed close to a dozen dogs after luring them with biscuits, so they could then feast on ‘dog biryani and korma’.

Lalaronei Inbuon alias Nonou (27) and Mishanbur Chinaupram alias Kho Kho (20), who hail from Manipur, were arrested after a complaint from their neighbour, Santosh Shetty, who had been searching for his missing dog — a Labrador Retriever — since January 13. A witness tipped him off about the duo, saying they had taken the dog away.

After searching for his pet for two days, Shetty approached the Vakola police and registered a complaint, after which the cops apprehended the accused. A police source said the cops soon discovered the dog’s carcass in a trash bin, after they questioned the duo. They also found a few dog leashes and collars in the bin, indicating that the accused had possibly done this before.

On questioning the pair, the police learnt that the two would go out for evening strolls in the neighbor hood and keep an eye out for well-kept, pedigree pets. They would lure the dogs to their home with biscuits and would then brutally butcher the animals. They would allegedly feast on up to 10 kg of dog meat, prepared as ‘dog biryani’ and ‘dog korma’. Cops also found a large steel utensil that the duo allegedly used for these preparations.

Nearly a dozen dogs had gone missing in the past year, and the police suspect the accused were involved in those cases as well, said a source. It is also learnt that when confronted, the two disclosed that dog meat is a common meal in their native place in Manipur.

They were booked under Sections 379 (theft) and 429 (Mischief by killing or maiming cattle, etc) of the Indian Penal Code and under relevant sections of the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Act, 1960.

Copspeak

“The two accused were produced before the magistrate’s court and have been remanded to police custody for two days,” said Vilas Joshi, senior police inspector at the Vakola police station.

Source : Mid-Day